• Everyday,  Trauma Parenting

    Lady in red.

    Chatty Cathy has been part of our household for around 45 days now. For the first month she was stuck at home, hanging out with me, until we could get her enrolled in school. I’m not that exciting, poor girl.…

  • Everyday

    Silverware reproduction.

    A strange thing happened here in the last week. I mean a strange thing happens here almost daily, but this one is beyond any “reasonable” explanation I can come up with. Hubby, while emptying the dishwasher, informed me that we…

  • Everyday,  School,  Trauma Parenting

    Ummm, what?

    Each day this week, I have reached out to school, asking for the status on the escort system that Daytime Emmy Nominee is supposed to have in place, per her IEP. That escort is to ESCORT her from class to…

  • Everyday,  Trauma Parenting

    Death by closet.

    I’m so glad to be home and surrounded by what’s familiar. Things like finding two salad forks under a pile of laundry, and nearly being swallowed alive by an avalanche of stuff shoved into the closet. Glass half full: I’ve…

  • Everyday,  Trauma Parenting

    Court.

    First, I love Zoom Court. Macomb County and Wayne County are still doing juvenile court via Zoom. If you gotta appear, Zoom is for sure the way to go. In person court is a crap shoot on time, which in…

  • Everyday,  Trauma Parenting

    Natural Consequences

    I’ve said this before, but I have learned so very much about parenting in the last handful of years. The biggest lesson, “Natural Consequences. Let them happen.” I used to put forth a lot of energy trying to save kids…